Detaching from an abusive relationship or from a relationship with a narcissistic pervert undoubtedly requires financial independence and professional independence which will obviously allow you to meet your basic needs and those of your children if you have any.
But there is also this independence of personal growth from doing an activity that we love on a daily basis and that will pull us forward, give us goals that are really important to us. Having an independent activity allows you to focus your strengths on your own objectives and not to depend on the theoretical goodwill of anyone. I put a nuance here since when you have a self-employed activity, you certainly do not have a boss but you naturally depend on the development of your clientele and the satisfaction of the people for whom you create a service or a good.
You really have to cut through the memories and all the gravity of this toxic relationship where you constantly feel like you are worthless, worthless and ultimately unable to do anything with your life.
To reverse this process, the key is to get closer to people who will be both benevolent, this is a first aspect, but above all competent, second aspect and not the least, and who will pull you towards new sources of income. .
- The first lever is first of all that of coworking which really makes it possible to have a very wide variety of professionals who come together to be in a working environment but also to share break times and therefore both personal exchanges and professional.
- • Second lever to orient your activity differently and allow it to move to the next level: develop a network within the framework of female solidarity.
- On the internet there are groups of women entrepreneurs and also mothers with different objectives, especially in terms of organization and business strategy.
I also had the opportunity to do an interview recently with an entrepreneur friend with whom I network, Isabelle Sherpa.
Within these networks that are also called Masterminds you will have a concentrate of energy, boost and motivation. You will also find technical aids which is extremely important.
In fact, if the mind is the first aspect with the focus on your goal, there is also a whole aspect of perseverance step by step which involves the technical improvement of your performances and your performances. This improvement concerns the substance of your work but the way to put it forward.
I see this on a daily basis, both in supporting women who want to make a new start after these hardships they have undergone and in writing, which is my primary profession, which I have also carried out with passion since 2002.
I observe how fundamental the aspect of communication is: you can be the best professional in the world if no one knows you, you are not going to be able to develop yourself and therefore have this independence which allows you to do what you want. pleases, to support your family and to offer what you want for your children starting with a fulfilling education. This will allow you not to depend materially on the man you have lived with who may also be the father of your children for various and varied alimony issues and not be forced to run after money. You can be completely free and independent. If you have alimony, all the better of course, it is a plus that will benefit the children, but independently you should not feel strangled by an expectation outside your own strength. So stay in touch with the channel and don’t forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel “Agnès de Reulle – Getting free from violence” and to click on the notifications tab, to be really informed of all new videos so as not to don’t miss the ones that will really give you the boost you need. And I’m here to help you take your business to the Next level! I wish you a very good day I kiss you take good care of yourself and see you soon in a next video. Agnes de Reulle Coach, Expert in liberation from domestic and family violence & in controlling the stress of legal proceedings Article written for Positive Words.
• The first lever is first of all that of coworking which really makes it possible to have a very wide variety of professionals who come together to be in a working environment but also to share break times and therefore both personal exchanges and professional.
• Second lever to orient your activity differently and allow it to move to the next level: develop a network within the framework of female solidarity.
• On the internet there are groups of women entrepreneurs and also mothers with different objectives, especially in terms of organization and business strategy. I also had the opportunity to do an interview recently with an entrepreneur friend with whom I network, Isabelle Sherpa.
Within these networks that are also called Masterminds you will have a concentrate of energy, boost and motivation. You will also find technical aids which is extremely important. In fact, if the mind is the first aspect with the focus on your goal, there is also a whole aspect of perseverance step by step which involves the technical improvement of your performances and your performances. This improvement concerns the substance of your work but the way to put it forward. I see this on a daily basis, both in supporting women who want to make a new start after these hardships they have undergone and in writing, which is my primary profession, which I have also carried out with passion since 2002.
I observe how fundamental the aspect of communication is: you can be the best professional in the world if no one knows you, you are not going to be able to develop yourself and therefore have this independence which allows you to do what you want. pleases, to support your family and to offer what you want for your children starting with a fulfilling education. This will allow you not to depend materially on the man you have lived with who may also be the father of your children for various and varied alimony issues and not be forced to run after money. You can be completely free and independent. If you have alimony, all the better of course, it is a plus that will benefit the children, but independently you should not feel strangled by an expectation outside your own strength. So stay in touch with the channel and don’t forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel
“Agnès de Reulle – Getting free from violence” and to click on the notifications tab, to be really informed of all new videos so as not to don’t miss the ones that will really give you the boost you need. And I’m here to help you take your business to the Next level! I wish you a very good day I kiss you take good care of yourself and see you soon in a next video.
Agnès de Reulle
Coach, Expert in liberation from domestic and family violence & in controlling the stress of legal proceedings
Article written for Positive Words.